I never looked at the consequences of missing a big shot. Why?
Because when you think about the consequences you always think of
a negative result.
Some people get frozen by that fear of failure. They get it from
peers or from just thinking about the possibility of a negative
results. They might be afraid of looking bad or being embarrassed.
I realized that if I was going to achieve anything in life I had
to be aggressive. I had to get out there and go for it. I don't
believe you can achieve anything by being passive. I'm not thinking
about anything except what I'm trying to accomplish. Any fear is
an illusion. You think something is standing in your way but nothing
is really there. What is there is an opportunity to do your best
and gain some success. If it turns out my best isn't good enough,
then at least I'll never be able to look back and say I was too
afraid to try. Failure always made me try harder the next time.
That's why my advice has always been to "think positive"
and find fuel in any failure. Sometimes failure actually just gets
you closer to where you want to be. If I'm trying to fix a car,
every time I try something that doesn't work, I'm getting closer
to finding the answer. The greatest inventions in the world had
hundreds of failures before the answers were found.
I think fear sometimes comes from a lack of focus or concentration.
If I had stood at the free-throw line and thought about 10 million
people watching me on the other side of the camera lens, I couldn't
have made anything. So I mentally tried to put myself in a familiar
place. I thought about all those times I show free throws in practice
and went through the same motion, the same technique that I had
used thousands of times. You forget about the outcome. You know
you are doing the right things. So you relax and perform. After
that you can't control anything anyway. It's out of your hands,
so don't worry about it.
